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6 Reasons Why You Should Stop Self-Rejecting & Just Give It a Go!

How to find a job (you love): 6 Reasons Why You Should Stop Self-Rejecting & Just Give It a Go!

Welcome to I Love My Job‘s career advice series, where we‘re sharing our recruitment expertise to help you find a job you love. Today, we want to encourage you to break free from the shackles of self-rejection and doubt, so you can recognise your abilities, and that take a leap of faith into achieving greatness. In this blog post, we’ll explore six compelling reasons why you should stop self-rejecting and just give it a go!

You Won’t Know Until You Try:

The fear of the unknown often leads us to self-reject before we’ve even attempted something new, that’s because it’s a lot easier to talk yourself out of something you’re not familiar with. But how can you truly determine your capabilities without giving it a try?

📌 Example: Let’s say you’re considering applying for a challenging project management role at work, but you doubt your abilities to handle such responsibility. Instead of self-rejecting, take a chance and apply for the role. You might discover that you excel in managing projects, leading to career growth and recognition.

Failure is Not the End:

Society often stigmatises failure, portraying it as a negative outcome. However, in reality, failure is needed, and a natural part of growth and success. When you fail, you learn – by taking those learnings and improving the outcome you can rely on yourself to fix and move forward.

📌 Example: You have a passion for writing and dream of becoming a published author. Instead of self-doubting and fearing rejection from publishers, submit your manuscript to various publishing houses. Even if you face rejection, remember that renowned authors faced numerous rejections before achieving success.

You’ll use Your Mistakes to Grow:

Mistakes are at the core of learning. By taking risks and trying new things, you’ll inevitably encounter challenges and make errors. Embrace the mindset of continuous learning, and view mistakes as stepping stones towards improvement and growth.

📌 Example: Suppose you want to transition into a new career field, but you lack experience in that domain. Instead of self-rejecting, highlight the areas and skills that are transferable and relevant. You don’t need to know it all, and if you encounter challenges, you’ll gain valuable experience and insights, setting the foundation for future success.

You Might Surprise Yourself:

Self-rejection often stems from underestimating our capabilities and potential. However, when you try something new you reveal hidden talents and passions you never knew existed, and you may well be pleasantly surprised at what you can accomplish.

📌 Example: Let’s say you’re considering starting your own small business, but you doubt your entrepreneurial skills. Take the leap and launch your venture. You might discover a natural talent for business development and witness your venture grow beyond expectations.

Regret is a Powerful Motivator:

📌 Example: Imagine you dream of travelling the world and experiencing different cultures. However, fear and self-doubt hold you back from embarking on the journey. Over time, the regret of not exploring the world and broadening your horizons becomes more profound than the fear that stopped you.

Regret can haunt us more than failure ever will. One of the biggest regrets people have is wishing they had taken more chances in life. Use this fear of future-regret as a motivator to embrace the unknown and seize opportunities with courage and determination.

You Owe It to Yourself:

At I Love My Job, we believe that everyone deserves a life full of excitement, growth, and possibility. You owe it to yourself to explore your potential fully and embrace meaningful opportunities. Don’t let self-rejection hold you back from the fulfilling career and life you deserve.

📌 Example: Suppose you have a passion for social activism and want to contribute to positive change in the world by working with a purpose-led B Corp company. Instead of self-rejecting due to limited experience, get involved in local community and volunteering initiatives. You owe it to yourself to make a difference and pursue your passions.


As a positive impact recruitment agency, we are passionate about helping individuals reach their full potential and make a positive difference in the world. We’re here to support and guide you on your journey towards a rewarding career.

Remember, the path to success is paved with determination, resilience, and the courage to embrace the unknown. Let go of self-doubt, and take that first step towards discovering your true capabilities and fulfilling your dreams.

So, what are you waiting for? Stop self-rejecting, It’s time to give it a go and unlock your true potential! Let the adventure begin!

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